Late Night Date!

Well idk if you can really consider what I just did a date. I just started talking to this guy I met today and we met up about an hour ago and were just talking and hanging out with each other, you know, getting to know one another; there was no sex I promise lol. I really enjoyed it, he's cool, down to earth, and lets not forget sexy. I don't know why I'm blogging about it because I have a bad time with things when I announce them too early. I think I'm jinxing myself, but I just wanted to would that be considered a date? there was no going out to eat, it was just he and I talking about stuff. I liked it a lot, but I'm just asking if that's considered a date. Not that it really matters. I'm not one of those people that HAS to go out eating or some extravagant thing in order to consider it a date. my ideal date would be to go mini golfing and/or to a batting cage so we can actually talk and have fun. I don't like going to the movies because we don't talk we just sit there and watch the damn movie; however I would like to watch a movie in the house, cuddled up with a guy. See, I'm a very simple person. some people get the wrong idea abut me based off of my appearance and some of the things I say. I don't like having 1 night stands, I don't like sex on the first day, I don't like going out to eat as a first date, I'm not high maintenance AT ALL! I'm just... Kenny.

OH, and let me tell you guys what the fuck I heard as I was going to meet the guy. The guy doesn't live that far from me, so I walked down the street to see him. While I was walking, I heard a lady speaking loudly so I'm looking around trying to figure out where the hell it's coming from. The closer I get the more I could understand what the words the lady was saying. THEN when I got by the house I heard "Oh yeah, Spank that ass" and "you like this fat culo?" My eyes got so big!!!! No these people were NOT fucking with the window open and no she was NOT being that loud! LMAO I guess she really had no shame; I ain't mad at her. oh and F.Y.I "culo" means "ass" in Spanish, just in case you didn't know.

Now I'm gonna get to the school work I was supposed to do YESTERDAY! lol Later, Dolls!

Honey, It Is NOT That Serious!

Alright, i was talkin to this one guy yesterday and we hit it off so i gave him my number. this morning he asked me if i was gonna be busy today. i told him yeah kinda because i was gonna be out a lot through out the day. then he told me how he had to swing around my area to pick up his son, which i did NOT know he had! Honestly i don't care about dating a guy with a kid. i have before and it was perfectly fine. anyway, i told him to let me know when he was on his way here and i could work something out. now i handle all the shit i had to handle and was on the phone with my best friend around 5 p.m. At 5:36 p.m i got this HILARIOUS text message:

"Hey lose my number, i made a mistake I love my son and God to much to go down this road! Have a blessed life! Again sorry for wasting ur time"

what was funny about this is that we hadn't even been talking for 24 hours and he felt he was wasting my time? i really wasn't into him that much. he acted like we were almost in love lol. it did however send me back to my first boyfriend because he did this same bull shit to me, but more than once. always bitching about he loves god too much and blah blah blah. i would never put myself through that bullshit again. Just wanted to blog about this because the situation gave me flashbacks.

Later, Dolls!

Let's Talk About Dating! :)

On Wednesday, I went on a date with this guy. it was pretty much the first REAL date that I've ever been on. I mean, I've gone out with guys, but it was always stupid stuff like movies or some other thing where we didn't actually get to talk and get to know each other. how many of us have really gone on DATES like that? i don't consider going to a movie, or going to your/my house and just messing around. That's all that's really happening now in our generation. no one is really trying to get to know each other before they hop into a relationship(or to have sex, for that matter). I'm not trying to knock anyone that sleeps around because i know how ya feel. if you're not trying to get into a relationship just now, or want to date around a sort out your options most of the time all you're gonna be doing is fucking around. Sex is awesome and that's that... oops, I've seem to have lost my point lol. what i was getting at is, if you're REALLY looking for a long term relationship, you should get to know the guy/girl first. go on real dates and talk, go out to eat, play mini golf... ok, the last one isn't a must but it's something i really wanna do hahaha. basically what I'm saying is to go places where you have to interact and talk, as long as they're fun.

going slow is better than jumping in and finding out that the guy/girl annoys you to no end. all of my relationships were quick. i met them, got with them, they cheated, we broke up. except for 2 people. when i was 15 i cheated on this one guy and that's why we ended. and my last relationship lasted for 2 years. and we broke up in December 2009. he was just playing too many damn games and i didn't like it. now that's I'm 20, i don't really feel like rushing into anything just to end up single again. I'm taking my time and sorting through my options HOPEFULLY i find someone that i really like and isn't a complete douche! ahaha i actually like the guy i went out with, so wish me luck and lets hope that I have more future dates with him :)

ok, I'm tired of typing so I'm about to cut this blog short.

Later, Dolls!