"The Difference Between a Fag and a Homosexual" Really?

I saw a blog on myspace a couple months ago about the difference between a fag and a homosexual. It was one of the most ignorant things I have ever read. And I'm blogging about it now because I just came a cross the blog again. The guy says "A Homosexual is someone who just likes the same sex... now a Fag is someone who feels since they are a homosexual, they have to fit they have to fit the lifestyle of a female". Really? Is this what people think? First of all, the only difference is they they are two different words. Secondly, a Homosexual is anyone who likes the same sex no matter if their feminine of masculine. A "Fag" is a word used to belittle any homosexual. Now maybe their are those that think because they're gay they have to act like a woman, but I think those types of people are few and far between. If a gay guy is feminine it's because that's just the way he is. Just like if a gay guy is masculine it's because that's the way he is. Just because a guy is feminine does not mean he wants to be a girl! The person also said that feminine men also start a lot of drama like women. EVERY human on this earth starts drama no matter if they're a man or woman! Straight men start drama too! It may not be the same drama but its still drama. Honestly, does it even matter? The LGBT community needs to uplift every member of it and stop trying to exclude people because you're afraid of how people will view you because of what another is doing. Yeah, it's true that most gay people that are in the spotlight are feminine but that doesn't mean every gay guy is like that. And if you're masculine, you shouldn't hate or put down feminine men by calling them a "fag".

A good friend of mine was dating this girl who said she doesn't like feminine gay men because she thinks "a man should act like a man". I had a HUGE problem with this because the girl was a butch lesbian. If a man should act like a man than a woman should act like a woman. She's trying to push a gender roll on someone when she's not even following her gender roll. How are you gonna criticize someone for doing basically the same shit as you? Fucking hypocrite.

At the end of the day, the only person you need to make happy is you! Live YOUR life the best way you know how and be the best You that YOU can be. If you believe in God(who ever your God may be), hope that he/she approves when the time comes. No one can tell you how to be who you are. If someone doesn't like who you are, then don't associate yourself with that person. plane and simple.

Later, Dolls